THE HELPER, THE JUDAS, AND THE GOLIATH

AMANDA

When EssyChrist invited me to guest-write on her blog, I was torn between multiple choices. I finally decided on an aspect of “the male logic”; specifically that of some married men. I was inspired by the #InTheDm series on Facebook .A typical #InTheDm message goes like this;
“Hi, you are a very beautiful and intelligent young woman. You have this thing in you that my wife lacks. I wish we could hang out some time.”
The message started off well because c’mon! A girl cannot hear that she is beautiful enough. I literally force compliments out of my family whenever I dress up so it is cool to get it from a random stranger. However, the problem here was why he had to demean his wife in an attempt to get the lady’s attention. At this point, one would have to be absolutely naïve to not get this man’s motive. He basically wants her to be his side piece because his wife has lost the “it” factor.
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